I have been planning this trip to the Keys with my cousin for months and today...4DAYS before we are due to leave she tells me she doesn't want to go!!!! UGH!!! I have re-arranged our lives for an entire week so that we could go on the annual girls trip!! My brother and his wife didn't go on vacation this week because Mom had already said she would watch Amy! I hate flying alone but today I said SCREW IT I'm going..we were meeting family there anyway so it won't be too bad once I get there!!! But can you imagine...4 days before we leave and she's felt this way for a while and couldn't figure out how to tell me!
I just really need the break so even if I have to hang out alone and go to the beach...I'm going! Now comes the hard part telling my husband I'm going on a trip alone!!! I wish I could just not tell him but he would find out then think I was lying to him to cover up for something...which by the way I have never done...but the ex did...go figure! I could use some help on this one. I really want to go!! UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Definitely go on the trip without your cousin - you need a break and you planned it. But obviously you need to tell Paul that your cousin backed out. And chance he can come with you instead? Do you want him to even if it is a possibility? I dunno, just thinking out loud (well in writing anyway). If it helps any reinforce the idea that althought the travel is alone that you will be visiting family while there. In your heart you know that telling him is not as bad as not telling him and having him find out - because then you will look guilty even if you have nothing to be guilty about. Good luck.
Thanks Paul! I did tell him but there is no way he can come with me. He was actually fine about it!! I really need a trip alone anyway. I think it might do us wonders. Now if I can just make it in and out of that damn Boston airport everything will be great! Seems I always have to run to the shuttles to caught my flight on the opposite end of the place!! haha Thanks for the encouragement!
I'm with Paul, go! Glad to hear you DH was ok with it. Don't know if you're ever been to Key West, but there is one heck of a night life there! Enjoy yourself!
Thanks Barry...I plan too! No I haven't been there but I have heard alot about it. My cousin goes every year and has already weeded out all the crap spots on the agenda. Can you imagine she thinks today that she still might go! UGH..anyway thanks for dropping by.
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